The pregnancy can bring about changes in the sexuality of the pair?
Many pairs forget that a pregnancy happens generally after a sexual relation. Due to this myths and fears related to the sexuality exist during the pregnancy. Sometimes is something uncomfortable, sometimes is enjoyed more than ever, but sometimes also he is absent during all the gestation. What it always happens is that there are changes in the sexuality during the pregnancy. The sexual needs of a pair vary widely. For some it is a weekly obligatory relation and for a another daily relation never it is sufficient. These variations between pair and pair also exist during the three trimesters of the pregnancy.

How it varies the sexual appetite of trimester to trimester?
Next we detailed as they change to desires and the sexual relations according to the stage of the pregnancy:

• First trimester
In scientific studies one has been that 54% of the women undergo a diminution of their libido during the first trimester of the pregnancy as a result of the fatigue, the habitual nauseas and malaises during this period. In a smaller percentage, other women tienene many more sexual desires, especially by the changes in secondary genital sensitivity to the hormonal changes. Many women even experience their first orgasmo in this stage.

• Secondly quarterly
During the second trimester the situation changes considerably, since the pair already has adapted to the pregnancy and have disappeared many of the initial fears and malaises. It is in this stage that becomes to the previous sexuality to the pregnancy or is enjoyed sex like never.

• Third trimester
During the last stage of the pregnancy the sexuality returns to be it jeopardize since now it is the belly the one that interposes between both and sometimes it is very difficult to abstain especially from all the anxiety that wakes up the birth, when is the first son. In this stage as much the pleasure as sexual desire falls in great amount of pairs and in scientific studies it has been that during the last month of the pregnancy only 75% of the pairs continued their sexual relations in the habitual form.

Frequent annoyances, fear and restlessness
One of the most frequent annoyances during the pregnancy is sensitivity, the mammary pain and the change in the vaginal secretions that increase in amount and modify their scent and flavor. The increase of the vaginal flow during the pregnancy often solves previous problems of lubrication or vaginal narrowness.
Also fears with respect to bothering to the baby exist during a sexual relation or that the baby is kind to the same. In order to break with these restlessness it is good for knowing how that bebésolamente it feels the pleasure that the uterine contractions of orgasmo in the woman can cause to him. The answers of the baby, as to remain quiet or to move exaggeratedly they respond the consequence of the hormonal changes related to the sexual relation or the contractions brought about by orgasmo.

What advantages bring the sexual relations during the pregnancy?
As it says the proverb well “It's an ill wind that blows nobody any good”, sex during the pregnancy produces a change that can be very positive. Next we detailed to you which are these advantages.

• He is more spontaneous and relaxed
In the pairs that have had to be under treatment to be pregnant women, it is sometimes the moment at which really they can enjoy its sexuality without being spontaneously thinking about special thermometers, calendars or days of the cycle to be able to have its relations.

• It wakes up deeper feelings
Sometimes one of both is not of humor for a relation and must be other alternatives to arrive at the privacy. Some things to consider are that the sexuality must occur as a complement of other aspects in the life of the pair. It is not necessary amount if intensity of the relation not to arrive at a state of mutual satisfaction. Always pon emphasis in the love more than in the sexual relation.

• He is more romantic
More variants exist than the positions for sex you decipher in many manuals. Sometimes a kiss, a caress, a hug, a dinner with together candles or a shower are sufficient. Char it with your pair the things that you like more, perhaps now he will much more have “prepararte” for that moment during time that before and of other forms.

• He prepares muscles for the childbirth
A good sexuality during the pregnancy is important to prepare the body for a vaginal childbirth, the muscles of the vagina are exercised during a sexual relation, and improve their muscular tone for the moment of the birth.

What sexual positions are most comfortable?
You can try new positions for the sexual relation. Here we showed those to you that are more comfortable so that you try to see which is the best one in your case.

• The man raises In this position the man does not have to load his weight on the abdomen of the woman.
• The woman raises This is one of the most comfortable positions since the woman controls her weight, the degree of penetration and the intensity of the sexual act.
• Penetration of side This position also is comfortable since it is obtained an even distribution of the weight and a penetration not very deep.
• Penetration from back In this case the contola man the rate and the degree of the penetration.

They exist alternative if the doctor contraindicates the vaginal relations during the pregnancy?
In the cases in that the sexual relations by health problems are contraindicated, you must consult with your doctor if you can experience orgasmos, since the same entail to important uterine contractions that in some situations they could be detrimental for the development of your pregnancy.

Uso de Afrodisiacos in the pregnancy

The total extension of the effects of the prenatal exhibition to the alkaloids is not known, but the scientific studies indicate that these babies are born prematurely and insufficiently developed: with smaller weight, cranial diameter inferior and minor length. The exact determination of the consequences for new born is complex, and varies according to the drug or aphrodisiac that was consumed by the mother.

Sexual toys and pregnancy
The use or of erotic toys during the pregnancy is not one of the debated subjects more between the future mothers and is that the pregnancy is a beautiful and rewarding time for the women, but also can be frustrating as far as sex. Little months and months with or no orgasmo are difficult to take, even for the excited mothers. If your pregnancy is normal and healthful and your body needs sex, the erotic toys come to the rescue.

He is safe to use sexual toys during the pregnancy?
In spite of not having scientific tests, the experts agree in which the orgasmos, even those induced by the vibrators, are safe for the normal development of the pregnancy.

Your doctor thinks that you can have sexual relations?

If it is thus you can use toys without problem: to use sexual toys, always of smooth way, will release great amount of stress of the pregnant woman and will contribute to that the mind stays peacefully. In addition, they say that, due to the increase of the sanguineous flow in the perineo, to the pregnant women it is easier to them to arrive at orgasmo.

What you must consider?
There are exceptions. If you run risks of a premature childbirth or any other case of abnormal pregnancy, you do not use the toys without consulting your doctor. You must carry far the cleaning of your vibrator. It uses vibrators made with silicone, is a material of excellent nonporous quality and, reason why it will not absorb virus nor bacteria. And, during the last months, it tries not to introduce it and limitarte to stimulate clítoris. If you need the stimulation point G hazlo with your finger or the one of your pair, just washed.

It is common between the pregnant women to experience a lack of secretion due to the hormonal changes, but any lubricant can solve this.

What sexual toys are recommendable during the pregnancy?
In general, the vibrators, even the great ones terms, are the most recommendable toys during the pregnancy, as long as your doctor considers that you can have sexual relations.

In the majority of the cases, the vibrations of the toys are slight in comparison with other many activities and exercises of the daily life and therefore, put in danger neither to the baby nor the future mother.

In many cases the pregnant women prefer to use masajeadores to stimulate his clítoris or chests instead of to grasp itself. Good election. And you can use lubricants, but límpiate well after the climax, to avoid concentrations near the vagina.

Are better the small vibrators?
It does not have why, but it uses that one with which more comfortable you feel.